Saturday, June 26, 2010

Thought Of The Day.....!!

I Just Found Out That Decisions That Are Based Only On Fascination Are Meant to Be Regretted Sooner Or Later!!!!!..:)

says Anu..!!

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Hope!!!

"Never Deprive People Of Hope, It May Be Everything They Have"

I wana add one more point to it..Never deprive anyone of dreamz and hope...When everything is lost,hopes & dreamz keep us alive..You can find people who give you philosophical positive statements at tough times...You can also find them irritating at times just because they are not in your shoes. They can't understand your situation.They can be sympathetic to you but can't be empathetic.

But you know what frnds..these positive people are much better than those who try to kill your dreamz by offering negative statements.
Personally, I try my best to talk to the optimistic people at challenging times and if I don't get any suitable person...I prefer to rely on books..!!

I call it "challenging times" and not "Bad times"..because these times are actually not bad..they are challenging ones..
It's on you how to react to them..
How you prove yourself at failures...
How you feel when you don't get the things you truly deserve...
It's a challenge to be hopeful and dream again....
It's a challenge to stand up again after defeats...
Are you falling prey to negative thoughts such as jealousy, hatred, pessimism etc, after a setback, disappointment or some extremely hurting experience..??

"Hope begins in the dark, the stubborn hope that if you just show up and try to do the right thing, the dawn will come. You wait and watch and work: You don't give up."
says, Anne Lamott!!


And if I talk about myself...

I may live,
Or I may die,
I may creep,
Or I may fly,
I may laugh,
Or I may cry,
Hopes are alive,
Hopes Never Die! :)


says Anu!!!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

You Are Not The Weakest !!

There is a small story I want to share with everyone. The story goes like this.......

Once upon a time all the rabbits living in a forest were very sad because the carnivores used to kill them and eat them up. They were extremely worried & depressed at the thought of living a risky life that can turn into a disrespectful ending anytime. They decided to put their life to an end as they were so weak to fight against the animals who were killing them. The leader of the rabbits declared that all of them will go for suicide and end their lives by jumping into the nearby lake as there was no other solution to their problem. When all of them were running towards the lake, just then they saw that all the frogs jumped into the lake as they were scared of rabbits.
The leader of rabbits shouted, “NOBODY WILL SUICIDE, These Frogs Are Weaker Than Us, If They Are Not Dying Why Should We?????”

And in this way, rabbits realized that they are not the weakest; there are species that are weaker than them and still living without running away from their problems.
Many a times, we feel that God has been too unfair to us; we possess all the problems of the world. Destiny kills our dreams, our loved ones leave us, we lose someone we loved in an accident, cheated by someone we trusted, or we are going through a financial crisis; we assume that bad luck only hits us. We are the most suffered.

But the reality is truly different.
Just move your eyes and try to realize that there exists someone who has much bigger problems than you are facing. You are certainly not the WEAKEST.

Say 'Thanks'to everyone who left you when you needed them the most, because of them you realized your limitless strength and did everything on your own. Feel blessed for unfulfilled small dreams...because god wants you to achieve something bigger that you actually deserve. Definitely in any way, you will become a better person, a much stronger person that you would ever had imagined.

By living, you have a possibility to win against odds, but by choosing death, you kill all the positive possibilities by yourself. Now, do you want to be a WINNER or a KILLER?????? The choice is completely yours!!!!!




Anu!

Sonuism

I Can Be Weak At Times But I Am Not As Kind To Blame Myself For the Mistakes Of Others...!!!!!

Anu!

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Waiting For The Sunshine!

Although my faith is crying,
Although the hopes are dying,
Although the eyes are sighing,
What kind of heart is mine,
Still waiting for the sunshine......


Anu!