Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Why???

Now Man Is Bigger Than Almighty,
Why Do We Always Think Of Society,
Society Kills The Emotions Of Man,
Reasons Of Heart It Never Understands!!!..


by Anu!

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Significance of 'GROWTH'...!!

It's 1am right now and the reason why I haven't gone to bed till now can only be-THOUGHTS!!!!!

I was just thinking that how our life keeps on changing.....Every minute is different....and when we see ourselves after every 6 months...we are different human beings...changed a bit if not much...we are growing...not only in terms of physical appearance..there is something growing inside us...deep within us.!




Whether you are running a business, performing a job or working on a relationship with the person you love; to make anything successful a slow and steady GROWTH is needed and that GROWTH demands your efforts.Never deny possibilities.There is always a possibility to learn new things irrespective of the job you are in.When you feel that you know everything about your job, then ponder into your true self and ask...Do i really know everything or there is any possibility to grow???....Mark my words dear...There is a possibility..!!!..May be you need to change your place or the style of doing your work,but surely..there are some positive possibilities waiting for you on the other side of the door...Personally...being a writer,I really feel that I have lot to learn..I don't know 1% about writing...I keep on searching ways to write well..and meeting the right people who can help me out in doing so...
and you know what???..you attract the things you really need...I said,the things you 'need' and not you 'wish'....Wishes may misguide you..but needs are always fulfilled...GOD is really generous in this regard.

Well, we will talk some other day on how you attract the things you really need, right now our concern is GROWTH.
I wonder when people start taking relationships for granted. Whether it is a relationship between a son-father, between two lovers, husband-wife or between two friends...!!!
They always see the practical side of everything..You might have heard people saying, that they love someone but they are so pissed off with their jobs and businesses that they can't do anything to improve their relation with that 'special person'
I just want to put up only one question.....
Does your business keep on flourishing when you stop making any effort????????????

Just growing in business is not enough, GROWTH in relationships is equally important.
You need to make that person feel your care and love for him/her...If you love your parents, let them know..Do something for them you haven't done before...Even if they had always scolded you but your heart knows how much you love them...All of us need to understand that the people we love are not God, if we will not express to them what we feel how could they ever be able to know?????

Whenever growth stops....everything starts losing its charm and effectiveness,whether its your business or any relationship.Keep on making efforts to flourish...!!



Keep Growing,
Keep Loving,
&
Keep smiling...:)



Anubha!

Monday, March 22, 2010

Rudyard Kipling's ' IF'........!! (a simple poem but more than a poem......)

If

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Confused????

Sometimes we are so confused with our lives that we start questioning our existence.....
What am I doing?
Why I am doing this?
How could I react like this?
What do I really want in life?
What do I want just now?
How could anyone behave like this?
What can make me happy???
????????????????????????????????????????????

These are just a few question marks from the huge list of questions that remain unsolved in our minds but are not inactive.....they make you die every minute..every second...
When you are happy you wana cry,this confusion leads you nowhere.....


You want to escape the confusion
That you see before you.
I tell you, you will never be able
To escape the outer confusion
Unless and until
You have escaped the inner confusion.
And the inner confusion
Is your continuous doubt-indulgence.



I Don't know what to say...what to do...

This time wana remain silent ..go on to my hibernation period.....it is a wonder in itself..that an extremely talkative person like me remains silent sometimes...!! but its true...sometimes silence is the best answer to a million of question marks....!!!


Love,
Anubha!

Monday, March 15, 2010

My Favorite Poem Written By Robert Frost!

Stopping by Woods On A Snowy Evening

Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village, though;
He will not see me stopping here
To watch his woods fill up with snow.

My little horse must think it queer
To stop without a farmhouse near
Between the woods and frozen lake
The darkest evening of the year.

He gives his harness bells a shake
To ask if there is some mistake.
The only other sound's the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake.

The woods are lovely, dark, and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.....

Friday, March 12, 2010

If It's Going To Be, It's Up To Me!





"When the going gets tough,the tough get going. When the roads are rough, the Rough rise to the occasion.
They Win,
They Survive,
They Come out on Top."


Today I have pasted these lines on the wall of my room. I have done it many a times,if something touches my mind and heart and if I think that would be helpful for the lush garden of my mind, I write it on a piece of paper and paste it on my wall,from where I could see that just to entertain my mind with positive thoughts only..But that's not the point to be discussed here....

I wanna discuss something else.
Earlier I used to think that the people who are said to be "God's child" suffer the least.They get everything they need in hand.A God's Child is the blessed one. But when I actually saw the world around me, I found that a real God's child suffers the most but never feels down.He is like a PHOENIX BIRD, who knows how to fly again after being burned to ashes.God's children never take adversities as an excuse, rather they break the backbone of adversity that comes on their way and come out as better human beings...They are blessed with the adversities but they are the most blessed people.....They Just Keep on telling themselves that.......


If It's Going To Be, It's Up To Me!


Anubha!

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Having flaws!!

To have flaws is not such a bad thing. Its good to have some flaws in you.Don't ever regret these.
I personally feel that If you are perfect, you don't have chances to improve.But with flaws you have got lot of potential to improve. Love your flaws and lead towards perfection. Constantly work for it because perfection is not a destination.




Anubha!

Friday, March 5, 2010

Love the questions!!!

Sometimes we need to accept the things the way they are with a faith in our heart that whatever happens, happens for Good!!We can't put a question mark on certain things.We need to be patient with everything that remains unsolved in our heart and try to love the questions.You can not get the answers right now because you can't live them.

I have read somewhere:

Dear God,
Give me serenity to accept the things i can't change,
Strength to change the things I can and
wisdom to know the difference!!!


I would add one more line to it...
Dear God,please don't ever let my faith to move!


Anubha!

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Stepping Out Of Comfort Zone!


I have heard that"To achieve something big....one needs to come out of ones comfort zone n face the real challenges..!!!!!...." I don't insure myself of any big achievement..but yes....I have come out of my comfort zone now!!!!

Anubha!