Saturday, December 25, 2010

Emotions- Why Don't We Respect Them???

We are living in a world where people don't take time to change their priorities. They don't feel that there is anything wrong in not keeping commitments and the they don't feel important enough to invest into relationships which they have been gifted by God.People are used and misused by their owns.Disrespecting feelings is not a crime under any law.

Do all these things dishearten me? Yes they do! What I feel is, God gives each of us 24hrs a day.Nothing less or more than that. Is it so difficult to invest 10mins into people who are valuable to us? I do feel downhearted but then I promise to myself, I'll invest on people I love. I'll invest my time on them because their presence makes me what I am. I might not be perfect but I want to be a better human being.In this process of growing into a better person, we may get hurt many a times because people don't react the way we expect. But we need to deal with that as well.

Emotions have got a lot of potential. Potential  to move your  heart, potential to face anything that comes your way, potential to feel the importance of other people in your life, potential to  express yourself and potential to make you a responsible human being who is not only responsible for himself but for others as well. I agree, emotions do hurt us many a times, but it's upon you, whether to make a wall out them or a bridge to overcome the obstacles confronted by you.


While reading TUESDAYS WITH MORRIE, I came across the philosophy of detachment.We need to learn to detach ourselves from emotions we are going through, either pleasant or unpleasant. It doesn't mean you should not experience them. It is necessary to feel the things but it's even more important to detach yourself from what you feel because you can not afford to ruin your life. Life is precious....Keep it so..!!!

--Anubha

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Allow Me To Sink With My Belief!!!


Many a times in life we confront a situation when nobody believes our thoughts.Our own loved ones put a question mark on our ideas and in turn question our existence.We want to do something but they want us to do something else which as per their view is more secure, is more comfortable and is more reliable. They have their own reasons to support what they say, We have just one thing- A Belief!!!!

I know only one thing-If there's something that runs through your soul and your heart believes in,then don't stop yourself and do it.....The maximum damage that can happen to you is- You may fail, but dear you will be answerable to yourself...Trust me dear, Nobody will respect your beliefs if you don't respect them.It's better to do and fail rather than doing nothing and creep....!!A certain amount of discomfort is indispensable.

You just need to say loudly to yourself-
I believe in my most stupid, silliest and impossible dream even when nobody supports me because at last it's me who will either swim or sink and no one else......!!!!!! I'll prefer to sink with my belief rather than to swim indifferently with your Ideas...The only favor you can do to me is-
Please Let Me Sink.........!!!!!



--Anubha!

Friday, December 10, 2010

The emptiness in me!


a smiling face,
and a blessed me,
these are the things,
that you always see,
my positive wits,
my words when knit,
you always adore,
and like them for sure,
my dream to excel,
and planning so well,
the things I possess,
my 'virtues' I guess,
But deep inside me,
there is something to see,
my helplessness, my tears,
my heart,choked with fear,
an urge for care and love,
a “conscience” far above,
yearnings to learn n live,
to be forgiven n forgive,
sometimes a wish to flee,
when not loved by thee,
my vulnerability when I see,
the 'innocence' killed by thee,
when people ruin the 'peace',
how empty I feel in me,
I wish anyone could see,
That 'emptiness' in me……


Anubha! Dec. 14, 08